Writer : Mohd Shabir khatana
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No one can deny the fact that a mother feels more pain and always have more sympathtic for her children. She nourishes her children and with her sincere and hard efforts children are grown up and become adult. She does not care for her own health and always takes more care for the health of her children. When a mother belongs to a very poor family and does not have sufficient eatable for all the family members then she give her own share of edible things to her children and herself prefer to remain hungry.
When a child grows up with the more hard efforts of his/her mother and thus when child attains minimum age for admission in a School then again mother can take more care of the child in his/her studies because mother is more sympathtic to the children than all other family members . Mother can think and decide more better for her children than any one else belonging to he family . It is the Law of Nature that one who is more sympathtic for a person he or she can think more for his/her betterment than any one else. He or she always want to see the child on a very smart chair while holding a very beautiful post and he or she must have always best dreams for the child and thereafter continues his/her sincere hard efforts till child achives such post of his /her desire. In order of change such dreams in to reality there is always need of hard efforts with due care of the the children and mother is the only personality who can fulfill this responsibility in a most sincere and honest manner.
Such feeling of pain and sympthetic attitude for the children have been created by Almighty Allaha in the heart of every mother by virture of Laws of Nature and thus every mother can take more care and pain in repect of education of children. A research released four years ago had revealed that those children can achieve any beautiful height in their bright career who would have been looked after in the field of their studies by their mother. This is so because when children are looked after and are given maximum care in their studies with utmost sympathetic attitudes then children can become extra-ordinaty intelligent and efficient and can achieve any level of efficiency which will help them in securing any beautiful post during their bright career.
Since all the mother are not sufficient literate for teaching their children at home or all the mothers are not fully aware about the importance of Education for their children or all the mothers are not sufficient trained for taking care of their children or all the mother do not know their proper roles which they can play in the Education of their children but despite this all they can take more care of their children in the field of studies of their children because of sympathetic and inner power blessed to them by nature.
Now in order to aware all the mothers for playing their proper role to be played by them in the Education of their children , all the Educated youth, senior citizens, panches and sarpanches must start a campain for making all the mothers aware. Now let us see that what role can be played by a mother in this regard :
* A mother is first teacher for every child and child starts learning from lapol of mother . If the mother would have knowledge of values and habits which would be proper for the children then she would certainly teach such habit to her children from the very beginning as soon a child will start learning.
* A mother prepares meal and serves it well in time to her children and then sends them to School at proper time in a regular and punctual manner. She prepare meal keeping in view composition of healthy diets. She washes her clothes and creates a habit of cleaniness in her children. A mother sends the children to School after wearning clean clothes. In this way a mother can create a habit of cleaniness in children which will be helpfull to them in leading a healthy life till their last breath.
* A mother can advise her children for not wasting their time after school is closed and she can advise them for reaching home without wasting their precious time.
* The most important role which a mother can play is that as soon the children may reach home she may serve them meal . After taking meal children may take rest for some time so that they may bcome ready for reading again. There after she can keep them busy with their studies with love and affection which will ultimately help the children in making their base in studies enough strong . When basic knowledge of the children will be strong then children will take due interest in their stidies and in this way they will become sufficient efficient and intelligent . In this way a mother can play her maximum postively role for making her children efficient and intelligent.
* As soon a child must start understanding and learning good things beside love and affection of parents a child must be taught importance of parents for himself/herself.whenever mother will prohibit the child from doing an activity, she may tell to her child that father will be annoyed if child will do such things. Similarly when father will prohibit his child from doing some thing undesired then he may say that his mother will be annoyed with such activity of the child. In this way importance of the parents can be taught to the children from their child hood and child will give great importance to every advise of both mother and father and will also accept every advise and consequently advise for reading will also be accepted by the children with the idea that parents will be annoyed otherwise. In this way childen will study all the time with keen interest in order to make their parents happy with him/her. His/her interest in studies will increase day by day. Once habit of reading will be created in the children with love and affection of parents then they will coninute reading with keen interest till completion of their studies.
* A mother can play very important role in making strong base of her children in studies with love and affection by way of creating his/her interest towards studies. Mother can keep her children busy in studies for sufficient time according to the requirement of children for making sufficient strong base in studies.
* A mother can identify bad habits which will leave bad impact on the studies of her children and can advise her children for remaining far away from such bad habits. In the similar way a mother can also identify and inculcate good habits which would be necessary for teaching learning process of her children. Since childen remain more time with their mother as compared to father hence a mother can keep a strict vigil on all the activities of children. Only those children are observed to be weak in studies whose parent do not keep their children busy with their studies before and after School hours . When parent will keep a liasion with the teachers then on their vist to school parent can tell to the teachers about interest of their children in reading and writing .Parent can also confirm from the teachers about the performance of their children in studies and can also seek guidance and councelling for the improvement of their learning level . Those children become weak in studies whose parents fail to keep a liasion with the teachers of the School in which children would be reading or parent do not keep their children busy in studies before and after School hours for sufficient time according to their (children’s) need. Under such circumstance either children leave their studies in the mid way or children can not acquire the desired learning level and efficiecy ,can not secure good percentage of marks in various examinations and hence children can not come up to expectations of their beloved parents because such children fail to achieve beautiful posts which their parents were expecting after completion of their studies.
The purpose of writing this article is that all the Educated persons ,sarpanch panches and other senior citizens must be inspired through the madium of this Article by publishing it in this esteened News paper that a wide campaign must be started for makeing fully aware all the mothers who are not Educated or who are not aware about the particular role of a mother about their (mother’s) such maximum role towards the studies of their children so that every mother will play her maximum possible role in the Education of her children.
This will be in the greatest interest of Society and the nation because when all the mothers will play their proper roles then we will find a sea change in scenirio of imparting quality Education as well as teaching learning process all over the Union Tertitory of Jammu and Kashmir.
